Overcoming People-Pleasing in Ministry
Serving in ministry is a beautiful way to honor God and bless others, but people-pleasing can quickly lead to burnout, anxiety, and even bitterness. Balancing service with healthy boundaries ensures you’re serving for God’s glory and not seeking human approval — something so many of fall into!
Seek God’s Approval First
Are you serving man or God?
Galatians 1:10 (NIV) reminds us, “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.” Reflect on your motivations and refocus your heart on serving for His glory.
Practice Saying No
Not every opportunity is yours to take. Before saying yes, pray and assess whether the request aligns with God’s calling for you. Saying no when necessary allows you to fully commit to what God has placed on your heart without feeling stretched thin. It also creates the space for people around you to step into a role that they might be called to in this season.
Set Boundaries
Yes, even at church.
Healthy boundaries protect your time, energy, and relationships. For example, dedicate specific hours to ministry and safeguard time for rest and family. Communicate these boundaries clearly to others to avoid misunderstandings.
Rely on God’s Strength
Ministry isn’t about doing everything yourself. Trust that God equips you for what He calls you to and rest in His power. Isaiah 40:31 (NIV) encourages us: “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”
When you prioritize serving God over pleasing people, you’ll find joy, peace, and a renewed passion for ministry.
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